Seeking, and offering, forgiveness
Our time in Lent can seem like ‘desert time,’ when we feel ‘dry’ or dehydrated from the rich symbolism and nourishing effect of our Catholic faith, as when the holy water fonts are left dry during the Sacred Triduum. Still, we rely on our sacraments to nourish us along with the Word. Reconciliation, for example, helps us find our way back into the loving embrace of God, to find right relationship with one another. Indeed, the words “forgiveness” and “reconciliation” continue to ‘peek’ their heads up, especially during these first days of our Lenten journey.
In the first reading today, Ezekiel reminds the people of Israel of reconciliation and forgiveness. Essentially, we are not the worst of the decisions we make. We can seek forgiveness when needed and repair our relationships with one another. In the Gospel today, St. Matthew builds on the work of forgiveness and reconciliation. It is not enough to want to repair our relationships with one another; we must be active and seek repair and forgiveness. The Gospel reminds us that before we can offer God our thanks and praise, our hearts must be clean and free of resentment, hurt, and malice.
In the day-to-day work at Catholic Charities of Wyoming we strive to ensure that people have the opportunity to encounter forgiveness and reconciliation. When our parishes reach out to ask about assistance grants, or people come to the Chancery office looking for housing vouchers, we remind ourselves that part of our work is encountering people with love and compassion. People are coming to our agency on one of the worst days of their life. No one comes to Catholic Charities of Wyoming because he or she is having a great day. In addition to assisting with their physical needs, we must offer opportunities for forgiveness and reconciliation.
In this time of dry and desert-like Lent, where do you find nourishment?
Where do you need to apply the language of forgiveness and reconciliation with others?
Whom do you need to seek forgiveness from?
How will you pursue reconciliation with others?
Genevieve Mougey is executive director of Catholic Charities Wyoming.